You Can Take the Kids Out of the Country…
By Paul H. Betancourt
Copyright January 2013
I am proud of my kids. Neither one
wants to farm and that’s OK. We raised them to be independent and they are good
at it. What I have noticed is-you can take a kid out of the country, but you
can’t take the country out of the kid.
Our daughter teaches fifth grade. Last
summer she finishes a long, hard school year. Does she take a break? Nope. She
spends three weeks painting the insides of her new home and then starts her
masters program.
Our son just finished five and a
half years in the Army. Two of those five years were extended camping trips in
Afghanistan. Not farming, but lots of long days working outdoors.
Our son-in-law was raised on a
turkey ranch. He worked for a food processor a good chunk of last year. He had
a lot of ten, twelve and fourteen hour days. No clock punching for him.
None of them farm, but they took the
lessons they learned growing up on the farm and applied them in their work. You
can take the kids out of the country, but you can’t take the country out of the
kids. Fortunately they learned a few good habits growing up on the farm.
Our Families Are Like Your Families
By Paul H. Betancourt
Copyright January 2013
Nothing like family when it works.
Nothing like families when it doesn’t work either. I have seen both.
There is a lot of support for family
farms and it is appreciated. Most farms are family operated and considering the
challenges, and the weather, and the bugs ---it can get a little stressful.
There are many farm families where the husband farms and the wife works in town
so they have a steady income and health insurance. In many farm families
fathers and sons work together. I even know families where the daughters drive
tractor also.
When family works, there is nothing
like it. I love the fact that I can count on family when I need them. Farm families tend to stick together. I have
one friend who’s extended family gathers once a week in his home for dinner.
That is beautiful.
Of course, there are farm families
that can’t talk to each other. I have seen multi-generational farms
disintegrate because they couldn’t figure out how to get along. That’s sad.
Our families
are just like your families. When it works, there’s nothing like it. And when
it doesn’t, there’s nothing like it either.
I hope you all have a great week.